My comments were made in reference to the link below. Confessions and Lessons by R.K. Patel
If you would prefer just to read my comments, I have copy and pasted them here.
As someone who just had a double mastectomy for breast cancer and am undergoing breast reconstruction (and chemo so my hair is falling out), I now have a new appreciation for my body. Like you (R.K. Patel, see article referenced), I had been critical of myself, and I had many scars also. It's strange now that I don't have my old breasts, while I'm thankful for the fake ones, I wish they were real.
Sometimes we don't appreciate what we have until we don't have that thing anymore, like good health. Cancer takes that away, especially when you are a late stage. Now I'm thankful for what God has given me, and I'm taking better care of my body, like eating healthy, getting enough sleep, and exercising regularly. I'm making the time for a healthy lifestyle.
The one thing I would add is that the Bible says our body is a temple of the Holy Spirit. Therefore, it's incumbent to take better care of it so that the Holy Spirit can thrive. When we take better care of our physical body, we feel better spiritually and mentally. We make better choices. We live better, and since we aren't running out of gas, so to speak, pulling ourselves down with negative thoughts and critical beliefs about ourselves, we have more to give to others. We will love better. We live out of abundance, not limited by our own personal needs.
Boundaries are important also. With healthy boundaries, we will know what we are comfortable with, and we won't compare ourselves to others. Our bodies are holy, so we should be holy, in all our ways. When we do that, we will glorify God, and that should be our highest calling.